Jerry Seinfeld told a story about love.

A couple decided to throw a dinner party. It was going very well until the husband told an off-color joke that made everyone uncomfortable and upset some others. It ruined the evening, to say the least, and every one went home.

After their guests had left, the wife goes up to her husband and says, “I thought it was a wonderful joke and I’m sure everyone else did too.”

You don’t know what’s right, you do what makes the other person feel good. That’s love.